A Social Bottle Neck on Founding National (Indonesia) Identity

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How to build Indonesian Mental Model Essentially.

Today i want to elaborate *the thing* on small area in universe that called "A Social Bottle Neck While founding National (Indonesia) Identity". Before we talk about "the better indonesia", it's necessary to know what is "being better", and why should Indonesia transform to "better phase" Do we live in false or wrong situation? so can we judge that it is not true yet or it is not in right path yet? Or the fatalist said, do we need Indonesia?

As if i said few days ago, the thing that our bottle neck as nation is hard to elaborate yet is, we feel that we are one, one in element that build "the true building". But that's just popular fiction series. We are different, to the root. And we have right into that. The specimen who can prove that we are similar just the DNA test, and it is not a cheap process.

So why we insist to feel we are the same? Why don't we insist we are brotherhood? Brotherhood, entity that has intangible and timeless boundary, and had vertical and horisontal impact in all aspect of our will.

Why we love to bond in similarity? Because of we trained well in passive system. How to fit in box, not in transform and the boxes as brick into space, or maybe place for living. Some time random sizebox can make rustic and challenging feeling.

We'll have good experiences in passive system while we live in otoritarian leadership, wherever it is. Wich it is in old regime, dogmatic school & parenting, and sometime the worst is in how we believe God, but we have main orientation in money. That's the passive system maker.

Sometime we can not answer the simple question, "what will take your priority, to gain or to share. What is the first?" Actually, gained and shared are different. If it is a book, Gain is chapter of book. And shared is glue that stick every pages in book.

The "absurd" competition between to gained and to shared as same position are the main cause of the Social bottleneck. People mostly love to gain awareness than shared awareness of their or their relatives thought.